{"id":35215,"date":"2020-02-02T09:00:21","date_gmt":"2020-02-02T16:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kk.org\/cooltools\/?p=35215"},"modified":"2020-01-31T12:12:55","modified_gmt":"2020-01-31T19:12:55","slug":"waterless-car-washyou-are-a-strange-loopmessiah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/waterless-car-washyou-are-a-strange-loopmessiah\/","title":{"rendered":"Waterless car wash\/You Are A Strange Loop\/Messiah"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/recomendo.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sign up here<\/a>\u00a0to get Recomendo a week early in your inbox.<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"ctx-subscribe-container ctx-personalization-container ctx_default_placement ctx-clearfix\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>Waterless car wash<\/strong><br \/>\nOne of our Cool Tools readers, Jon Bonesteel, recommended\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/rain-x-waterless-car-wash\/?utm_campaign=Recomendo&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_source=Revue%20newsletter\" target=\"_blank\">Rain-X Waterless car wash<\/a>. He wrote, \u201cThis stuff is magic! It saves a LOT of water and washes a car better than soap and water. The resulting finish beads water like wax and it\u2019s so easy. I was skeptical, but I will never wash a car with water again.\u201d I decided to try it myself and I agree with him. It\u2019s easy to use and my car is shinier than it\u2019s ever been. \u2014 MF<\/p>\n<p><strong>You are a strange loop<\/strong><br \/>\nI recently read\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/36nS2qO?utm_campaign=Recomendo&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_source=Revue%20newsletter\" target=\"_blank\"><em>I Am Strange Loop<\/em><\/a>, by Douglas Hoftstadter, which makes the argument that one\u2019s sense of self is a mirage that arises out a cognitive feedback loop. I struggled with many parts of the book, but want to reread it because I believe Hoftstadter is onto something. In the meantime, I enjoyed Will Schroeder\u2019s 20-minute video, called\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/hQsnHkfs3sA?utm_campaign=Recomendo&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_source=Revue%20newsletter\" target=\"_blank\">You Are A Strange Loop<\/a>, which summarizes the book in an approachable way. \u2014 MF<\/p>\n<p><strong>Theological fantasy<\/strong><br \/>\nI\u2019ve been wow\u2019d by the Netflix series\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.netflix.com\/title\/80117557?utm_campaign=Recomendo&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_source=Revue%20newsletter\" target=\"_blank\">Messiah<\/a>, and binged all 10 episodes in a few sittings. The initial premise is: What if a Jesus figure came to the Mid East today and started doing miracles? Would he be declared a fake? A Prophet? By what religions? A potential revolutionary terrorist? All of the above? It goes on from there in unexpected ways, including becoming a CIA thriller. The Messiah\u2019s lines are really good. \u2014 KK<\/p>\n<p><strong>Under desk foot rest<\/strong><br \/>\nI have a height-adjustable chair and a sit\/stand desk, but my work area was not complete until I bought this\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2RNtK49?utm_campaign=Recomendo&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_source=Revue%20newsletter\" target=\"_blank\">AmazonBasics Under Desk Foot Rest<\/a>\u00a0($17). It helps me be mindful of my sitting posture, and I like that it swivels back and forth because I can stretch out my legs and calves. \u2014 CD<\/p>\n<p><strong>Immediacy filter<\/strong><br \/>\nOne of the most useful bits of advice I ever got, came from the writer Anne Herbert who said that whenever she got an invitation to do something months away or even a week away, she asked herself whether she would accept the gig\/meeting\/task if it was tomorrow. The answer was often no. I use that immediacy trick all the time, and it has served me very well. \u2014 KK<\/p>\n<p><strong>How to stop taking things personally<\/strong><br \/>\nSometimes my obstacle is when I\u2019ve taken something personally that shouldn\u2019t be. Like when my husband asks me if I unloaded the dishwasher \u201cyet\u201d and I interpret it as an all-out attack on my productivity. My therapist has advised me to listen to the request, not the tone. But that\u2019s easy to forget. Here is a\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/i.redd.it\/cj5pzu65eje31.jpg?utm_campaign=Recomendo&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_source=Revue%20newsletter\" target=\"_blank\">good printout<\/a>\u00a0to keep nearby if you also struggle with the same thing. \u2014 CD<\/p>\n<div class='ctx-module-container ctx_default_placement ctx-clearfix'><\/div><span class=\"ctx-article-root\"><!-- --><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recomendo: issue no. 184<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13684,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false},"categories":[2323],"tags":[2324],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35215"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13684"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35215"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35215\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35216,"href":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35215\/revisions\/35216"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35215"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35215"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tkdev.kk.org\/cooltools\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35215"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}